If you have read 50 Shades of Grey, then you already know what these books are all about and thus, you are also more intimately familiar with the concept of BDSM (that’s Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and or Masochism, in that order and any order that takes your fancy!).

If you haven’t read it, where have you been girl?

The purpose of this article is not to write about the merits of these books, enough ink has been spilled on that subject as it is, but rather to talk about the Secrets of Submission, one of the underlying elements of said books.

As a woman who’s read all three books, I must admit to feeling vindicated that when you add fantasy and role play to your love making then the sky is the limit as the say goes and a vanilla relationship can then transform itself into something all together more enticing, exotic, erotic, exciting, even dangerous…

Submission of one person to another!

50 Shades of Grey has been a defining moment in the lives of millions of women around the world as they are becoming intimately familiar with the concept of BDSM (that’s Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and or Masochism, in that order and any order that takes your fancy, of course!).

How many women have read 50 Shades of Grey?  According to some estimations, it’s over 40 millions of our sisters, young and old, married and single, spread around all continents who have already read  E. L. James books, (three books), (some more than once).  Add to that, an increasing number of men who have finally realized that they should really make an effort and read what their wives and girlfriends have been fantasizing about. Countless men, curious about that “big” secret that is being whispered behind their backs.

If you haven’t read it, where have you been girl?

The purpose of this article though is not to write about the merits of these books, whatever they might be, (enough ink has been spilled on that subject as it is), but rather to talk about submission and introduce a twist into the conversation that has everything to do with Secrets of Submission, and how any couple can learn about these secrets and nearly instantly turn their bedroom into a cauldron of passion.

One of the underlying current that has women all over the world buzzing is the fact that the future Mrs. Grey is introduced into the world of BDSM by Mr. Grey and as a result, falls head over heels in love with him.

The suggestion is that without the element of surrender, without becoming a “sub” to her Dominant boyfriend, without all that, perhaps Anastasia might not have fallen in love with Mr. 50 Shades of Grey.. or at the very least, not so passionately!

As a woman who’s read all three books, I must admit to feeling vindicated about something I have always said to my friends.

When you add fantasy and roleplay to your love making then it is possible to take any “vanilla” relationship and transform it into something all together more enticing, exotic, erotic, exciting, even dangerous…

As a Dominant woman, a Dominatrix with a large number of males who pay me large sums of money to Dominate them, I can tell you that there is no sweeter reward than to receive the attention of an adoring man during and after a BDSM session.

What am I talking about?  Simple:  Submission of one person to another!

In 50 shades of Grey, it is the woman that submits to her man, but in my own world of 50 shades of submission, it is the men are the subs, and they absolutely love it!