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The Typical Submissive Male Reader

Submissive MakeI was talking to my old mom the other day telling her about this site (yes, she is that open minded) and she asked me the weirdest question:

Who reads that site?

I laughed of course. How dare she! Who would read any site where the main topic is submission (sexual and other wise)?

People who are submissive of course. And the others who are Dominant.

… was my reply to her…

But she had made a point, as always, this old and so very wise woman.

Who reads my site? Men? Women? People who identify as Female? Male submissives? Couples? D/s Couples?

Dominant males who want to have a laugh about it all only to discover that deep down, they are not as dominant as they might think?

Submissive Males? Dominant Women? Kinky people? Folks who think BDSM is like Nutella on a buttered sandwich? Once you have the taste of chocolate on your tongue after that first bite, you just don’t know how you ever ate a plain buttered sandwich before?

Sexually active couples who just want to have even more fun? Couples who don’t have sex anymore? Women who are no longer desired and made love to by their man?

By the way, if that’s you, then you’ve got to read Secrets of Submission!

I think that there are principally two types of people who read my articles:

Women who know they are Dominant but don’t know how to make their partner realize they would be happier in a D/s relationship (That’s Dominant (female) and submissive (male) relationship by the way).

And Men who know that are submissive and would love to be dominated by their spouse.

I am fairly certain that submissive men frequently go on site where Female Domination is the main theme because they know their place in this world, and it is to be service of their female companion.

What about sex? Do D/s relationship have to be based on sex?

Not at all. In fact, Dominatrix who administer their BDSM crafts on their subs never ever perform sexual acts on them. They simply do not allow any kind of sexual contact that might lead to a release of any kind. That is not to say that there is no sexual component whatsoever and when a Dominant woman plays with her sub but doesn’t have sex with him, she will use the power of suggestion, the power of sexual humiliation to achieve her goals.

There are subs who think that whipping them is the best thing that can ever happen to them. In fact, I know of one man who was my sub for a couple of months who would have been a reader of this site had it existed when I first met him. He “picked” me up one night, acted all grand and macho and ended up becoming my submissive for two whole months and never had sex with me! He was whipped and bound, humiliated and bullied, he loved every minute of it, but never once was he allowed to touch me, or heaven forbid, touch himself.

Of course, that’s the extreme. Dominant women and their submissive men have the best sex they could ever have because that’s the dynamics that is supposed to exist.

So there…

My Husband? Submissive? He Would Never Allow It!

Teach my man to be submissiveEven today, women are being taught that as women, they are naturally submissive and should submit to their husbands when the time comes for them to become wives.  Indeed, the common wisdom, when it comes to Dominance, is that this is a trait specific to men and that’s how it’s supposed to be.

Yes, even today…

And if, as a female reader, this assertion has made you feel uncomfortable, then congratulation, sister.  There is a new order in the world, where things are back to where they should be, just like they were in the days of matriarchal societies. Days gone by when the women were the leaders of men, and men didn’t think that being lead by women made them any less men then they were!

Still, there is this doubt, tucked away in the recess of many a woman’s mind. A doubt about her natural Dominance over her man, and a misguided assumption that a real man would never allow himself to be submissive!

How do I turn my husband into a submissive man?  He is a “male” kind of man, does “guy stuff”, he knows what he wants, there’s no way he would ever accept to “submit” to me, in bed or anywhere else for that matter!

I hear this a hundred times from women I talk to who are interested in asserting some sort of dominance over their men, but think their men would never want such a thing to happen.

Besides, they also say…

I don’t want to turn my man into some kind of brainless metro sexual thing.  I like him strong and powerful…  If don’t think my husband can ever become a submissive to anyone, let alone me… And I really don’t want him to be subservient to me either…

So let me begin this article by saying that I love strong, powerful men.  Guys with an attitude, a self awareness that they know have got “it”.  Good looking guys, who will be at my side, will support me, will help me in times of need and hold me when I need it.

In a relationship when the woman is the Dominant, and the male her sub, it is often assumed that the man becomes some kind of subservient slave, some spineless dude who will do just about everything to please his wife, even if that means throwing away is “maleness”.  His virility!

And nothing could be further from the truth.  The men I control (now, or in the past) have never lost the sense of who they are, never lose their virility, never become slave, because that would imply a lack of free will on their part.

My men want, (really want), to be submissive to me, and anything I ask them to do, they do so willingly, eagerly and without any form of coercion.  Of course I have trained them to be just how I like them to be, but here is the wonderful thing about it:

You can be trained too!

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You just need the knowledge, it’s not difficult, your husband will love it, and the more you train him, the more he will want to please you!

And that, a man in love, is the sweetest thing of all!

 

 

Does A Woman Need To Be Dominant To Learn About The Secrets Of Submission?

Dominant WomanDominant Women (alpha women) are becoming more and more popular these days. From the rise of the Iron Lady to the advent of political and dominating ladies who willfully chew anyone for breakfast (from both parties), Dominant women are certainly on the rise. And not just in the political realm. Sexual Female Dominance is also becoming increasingly fashionable and the sexually Dominant Woman seems to have become a very sought after person in dating circles.

There is an inherently exhilarating element in the discovery (and practice!) of safe and fun erotic female dominance over man and it is precisely what Miss Young sets out to unleash in her most exquisite course!

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But does a woman need to be naturally Dominant (born as a Dominant), in order to learn about the Secrets of Submission, or can these extraordinarily powerful techniques be taught to any woman, even those amongst us who are naturally submissive?

In other words, can any woman be taught to be an alpha woman?

It is an interesting question and my own view is that as a general rule, females are born to be the dominant force.  Historical circumstances (we know what they are) have meant that women have had to show submission in order to survive in male dominated societies, but that does not mean that they were inherently submissive.  As a survival mechanism, their dominating side was disguised but if there is anything a woman is particularly adept at doing, it is to adjust to circumstances and some women, even the more “submissive” ones have long ago learned that even the most powerful men can be sexually “ruled”.

And here comes the really wonderful part, once a woman becomes knowledgeable about how to sexually dominate her man, her control over him inevitably extends way past the confines of their bedroom.

All she needs is to be told what to do, and her nature will always do the rest.

So, in this article, I have not tried to define how to find a Dominant (alpha) woman, besides most of readers are females, but rather how any woman can re-discover her own natural Dominance.

One of the questions women ask me is why would any woman want to be sexually dominant, what’s in it for them, and why would any man even accept to become the submissive partner in this erotic dominance play.

I will address these issues in later articles, but suffice to say that I don’t know of any man who having been a relationship with a Dominant woman who knows all about the Secrets of Submission would want anything else.

Let me say this another way.  Once YOU become the expert in the three techniques taught in the Miss Ivy Young’s exhilarating book, your man will not want to go back.  Not only that, he will have been so entirely smitten by your sexual dominance that his devotion to you will know no boundaries!

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And as you read through the articles on this site and get yourself ready to take the next step and order the course for yourself, you may question your husband’s willingness to even keep an open mind and try these techniques.

That would of course be a valid point, but here is the truly wonderful part.  He will be transformed in a loving, sexual thang, intent on pleasing you, and won’t even realize it.

You see, all men, even the most powerful leaders, love to be sexually submissive.  They just don’t know that they do.

So give it a go, there is a sixty day refund guarantee if you are not satisfied, but my challenge to you is that once you start to enjoy the enormous and exquisite advantages that come with the Secrets of Submission, you will wonder how on earth you were able to cope without.

The truth is of course that you weren’t, you wouldn’t be here right now, if you were. Nor would you be contemplating taking this course if your relationship was all that it could be!

In a next article I will talk about what erotic sexual dominance is and give my two cents to the concept of male submission and the wonderful qualities of submissive boyfriends (husbands).

In the meantime…  To the Dominant Queen in you, my dear female reader…