It was the best of both worlds for us. I am Top, my favorite position, and he is bottom, also a favorite of mine. But anyone who’s experimented with the whole Dominance / submissive lifestyle will tell you that is an ongoing learning process, both for the person who submits, but also, (even more so perhaps), for the person who is in control. And this process also requires that both parties, on occasions, switch roles, so that from time to time, when either my little hubby man feels more dominant or I become willing to be his “submissive little girl” for a couple of hours, we do switch. It’s a unique experience which enables us to keep our perspective intact and gives us a wonderful insight into what it is that makes us who we are.

If anything, these “switching” experiments confirm that I just love to be in control, and I am really comfortable with being who I am. A really dominant woman. As for the little hubby man of mine, assuming the ephemeral role of dominance only to relinquish it shortly thereafter re-affirms what he has always known, after he met me. He loves to feel my power, my control and the aftermath of those reversals always brings about the more intense sex we ever have.

It is when he returns to being what he was born to be, that my husband tells me he wants me to take even more complete control over him. I suppose it is a natural reaction, as if his mind is telling him off for the fact that he tried to be someone he is not meant to be. Even as part of role play which we indulge in during our power exchange games. It is a very sweet time for me as well since he becomes much more subservient then he already is, treats me like his main purpose in life is to serve me, which women are are dominant will tell you they are of course entitled to.

It is also after one of those sessions that I introduced him to bondage for the first time. And to pain, as a reward for being such a good little hubby boy! Bondage and pain, in our case always comes with sex, but sex, as any BDSM couple will tell you, is not the main reason why people who are in that lifestyle indulge in this delicious activity. In fact, I know couples who are really into BDSM and for whom sex (or sexual / physical gratification) in not the driving force in their relationship.

Still for this dominant woman, and her little hubby man, sex is definitely something we love to have, and in our case, BDSM is something we use to make things more “challenging”.

So yes! Being me is really lovely.  And little hubby loves me for it.

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Of course, I know his real identity, and so does his wife, and my feeling is that she must be a very happy wife to have a man calling himself so interestingly…

So here it is, in all it’s entirety, and with “Dereckt” permission and the permission of the one who makes all the decisions <wink>, his wife… I give you”:

What it means to be a submissive male

It takes an act of faith for a man to admit that he is submissive to his wife…  It’s not easy for anyone, (let alone a traditional male like myself) NOT to behave the way that society expects him to behave. But then again, nothing is ever easy…

I remember how she made me feel, my wife, the first time she told me that I was born to be submissive to her. And when in the course of that very fateful conversation, when she went beyond even that, looked me straight in the eyes, with that angelic and innocent face of hers and told me that from now I would be “her own sexy bitch” as well, I remember thinking that is exactly what I wanted to be, and I never knew.  A submissive who is a bitch to his wife.  How about that!

You’ve go to understand.  Men fantasize about being with assertive women, but there is a difference between a woman who is aggressive in the bedroom and a woman who tells you as a matter of fact that from now on, not only will you be her submissive male, but her own sex bitch to boot as well.  You see, men don’t want to be anyone’s bitch.  It’s just not what they do…  A man who is a bitch is the ultimate “non-man” so to speak.  The opposite of a real male.  But when my wife called me that for the first time some 4 years ago,  putting together those two words: submissive and bitch and applied them to me in relation to her, it struck a chord, turned me on like I had never been turned on before, and changed my life…  For the better.

You see, it takes guts for any woman to go against everything she’s ever been taught and assert her sexual dominance over her man, in the manner that she did with me.  Some women take control over their men as part of a gradual process, over a period of time during which, by their actions in the bedroom, they are able to become the Dominant party.  But my wife did it her own way…  And because of that, because she had never behaved in any way that would have suggested she wanted to be the Top, the only thing I could do, other than close my gaping mouth at the shock of hearing something like that, was to admire her for her strength, her courage and ultimately, her guts.

I remember exactly what happened that day, the day before everything would change. Which had started as any of the countless number of days before it, when I was the dominant spouse. .  Snow and thunder had rumbled throughout the night, it was Sunday morning, during breakfast, with the smell of strong coffee brewing in the kitchen, that she sat herself down in front of me at the kitchen table, just like she had done dozens of previous Sundays, casually dressed up, neat, looking innocent, and looked me straight in the eyes with an intensity that caused me to lower my eyes…  I will remember that intensity for the rest of my life, and the low, practically guttural sound she made when she realized that she had just won one of her most important battles.  It was as if she was glad and relived that she had passed that test she had set for herself.

She stared at me for what felt like a life time, with a smile on her face, looking lovely, and with a voice that I had never heard before, told me:

“Honey…  Things are going to change around the house from now on.  YOU (emphasizing that work put pointing one of fingers at me), YOU, from now will be doing exactly as I please.  YOU will be my submissive male, and when I want you to be, you’ll also be my own sexy little bitch!”

I don’t remember much about my response was after that statement, only that quickly got up, motioned me to follow her to the bedroom where we had the most glorious sex we ever had.

I will not go into too many details, but suffice it to say that I loved every second of that very first time, and I have loved her with a passion and intensity ever since.  I am truly her submissive male, I am sometimes ever her sexy bitch, and it is an experience that has changed my life.  And one I would gladly advise to any of your readers who are sitting on the bench right thinking about it, but not ready to take the plunge.

DO. How to be a submissive male is easier than you think, and when female dominance is asserted, the one thing the Dominant wife can be assured of is the ever growing affection and love of her submissive male.

It’s not that I liked it when  takes guts to admit that I love being my wife’s bitch.  Think about it.  Would you like it? Because a man who is a bitch to his wife is so much more than just a submissive man.  And because really, at the end of it of it all, it’s mostly a sexual trip.

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Now… Show me a woman who wouldn’t want that? A more compassionate, playful, appreciative, and attentive lover. A man trained to please her! I know I do.

As a Dominant woman, I have known for a long time that male anal exploration is a path (pardon the pun) to some pretty erotic “prostrate pleasure” and it is a practice that my boyfriends (several men over the years, sometimes more than one at the time!), eventually (and quite voluntarily) always succumb to, very much to their inordinate orgasmic surprises.

Even though my male friends and I have been enjoying this for as long as I can remember, there is a book that I am contemplating writing. 

And as I picture myself kneeling behind you, hands on your hips and strapon at the ready, ready to take what’s mine, the words:

The only guide for men

Where did this idea come from, you might ask? All I can say to you is that it

Now imagine you are the lucky fellow who’s been selected by me to service my needs…

Got that idea in your pretty head already?

(which I should probably have written myself) that makes the very same claims: “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. (Try to say that if you’re a man who is being pegged!).  Written by Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian I highly encourage you to read it!

Now you might think that pegging men is only possible when the male has bisexual tendencies, is mostly submissive, and is nearly always unsure of his masculinity. Indeed, I have heard that argument made to me by a number of people many times. In other words, the contention of some is that the only reason why my men surrender themselves to anal penetration is because they are my subs, and as such, might not be particularly secure in their masculinity.

Of course, nothing is further from the truth. Any man (in an hetero sexual relationship) who submits to anal play is not only straight but more importantly, is in fact extremely confident about his own masculine abilities and the very male nature of his masculinity.

And he doesn’t even have to be submissive either. At least not during the pegging action of course.

However, the idea of male pegging crosses many red lines when it comes to male psyche and or taboos. Boys are taught from a very early age that penetration is something that they do to women, and not the other way round. This idea that the male function is indeed only to penetrate someone, as opposed to being the one who is penetrated, is deeply rooted. Anal penetration (pegging) goes against everything boys have been told throughout their life.  Males think of pegging in terms that are both short sighted and homophobic: “Penetration is something that gay men do the other gay men, or something that woman might do to a sissy husband, with all the connotations that the very word “sissy” conjures up.”

In fact, males will shrug their shoulders and think nothing of being called “pricks” or “dicks” but try and call them “pussy” or “cunt” or “asshole” and their reaction will be completely different.

In other words, penetration is an act of dominance and a man who is “pegged” by a woman surrenders his dominance and becomes the submissive.  For a man, penetrating a woman (or a man) is what makes him a man.  As a result males believe that by turning the tables, by allowing their wife (girlfriend) to penetrate them, they become less “male” and thus are rarely willing to switch roles.

And this is no just a man’s preconception either.  Women are conditioned to think that they are the ones who are the “penetrated”, it’s their “birthrights”, their “obligations” as women, and the idea that they would “do” their men in the ass is a notion that they are not comfortable with.  “It’s not what’s suppose to happen” women often tell me.  For some women, it goes even further as the idea of anal penetration bring doubts in their mind as to the real nature of their man.  “He is secretly gay?”  Or:  “Will I lose respect for him after I have pegged him?”

Luckily, for both males and females, things are changing and the idea of pegging is becoming more acceptable. Which is a good thing because ask any couple who is indulging in male pegging and the overwhelming response you’ll get is that they’re have a blast doing it!

And for good reasons.  Males who are being pegged discover that there is such as as anal (prostate) pleasure and whilst the idea of being dominated by their woman is highly erotic for many pegged men, the pleasure of the act is what drives them to want it over and over again.

Now I am not contending that from now on you should only “do” your husband in the ass, and that your strap-on dildo will be your best friend forever, but the occasional pegging is indeed something that you really should consider.

Finally, there is the fear that anal sex (whether it is done on a woman or on a man) is painful or that the very fact that it is supposed to be painful is the true reason why men who want to fuck their women in the ass want to do it in the first place.  In other words, they enjoy giving pain, and if that is the case, they fear that by being at the receiving end themselves, it is the female who will enjoy inflicting that pain on them.  And of course, this is utter garbage.  If your man thinks that way, you haven’t prepared him well enough.  Pegging is a whole lot of fun.  Just be careful with it and leave the strap on for later.

Good Pegging then, boys and girls!

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As a Dominatrix, my actions and words towards my subs, (my submissive males tuned into slaves) are always extremely real and precise. There is no “double entente”. It is what it is. My Dominance over them starts in the bedroom and extends to every aspect of their lives. It is how I like it. If they don’t, well they know where the front door is… I’m usually the one who opens it for them. And I’ll even facilitate their exist by an appropriately placed kick, and if you are a submissive male, you know exactly what this means…

However, a Dominatrix lifestyle is not for every woman. And it doesn’t matter the level of Dominance you as woman has.  (Or your wife if as you are a submissive male reader yourself, as most of you guys are.)  Some women are simply not interested in taking their natural disposition to everything they do in life. In other words, for many women, in all aspects of day to day life, their relationship must be based on equal rights, but when it comes to sex, then the idea of dominating their males is all together different.  For them, Dominance is all about sex. And of course, this is one absolutely delicious way to spend any amount of time as you go about whipping your man, and all the other yummy ways any woman has when she sets her mind up to be all that she can be.

Still, not all women (or their men) want to use whips, clamps, restrainer when they make love and I know of many people for whom pain is simply not something they want to experience. But they would oh so love to dip their toes (and whatever else) into the realm of D/s. (Dominance / Submission).

So what can they do?

Use Adult Role Play for the Dominant and the submissive

What is particularly exciting about this type of adult roleplay is that it allows both men and women to taste what it feels to be the Dominant and the submissive. Lots of couples use this method to “switch” roles. If one of you wants to be a submissive for a while, this is exactly how to do it.

But first a disclaimer…

Whether you are in an actual D/s lifestyle, or just want to use adult roleplay to experience the thrills of submissive and dominance dynamics in a sexual context, guidelines must be established before you start anything. If one of you says to the other: “I want to be a submissive”, doesn’t mean that sexual assault is allowed.
In any Dominant submissive Relationship, no one can EVER be forced to do anything without his/her consent. This is particularly applicable to (some) men who think that because their woman wants to be submissive, she can then be assaulted by her man. So… submissive women and their dominant males wannabes, take heed. Again, I will use myself as an example… Anyone wanting to be a Dominant, must know how to be a submissive. It is the way it is. Only when you have been the sub to someone will know what it feels and how, as a sub, do you want to be treated. I was fortunate. The man I chose to be my Dominant what the sweetest, most gentle man you could ever meet. He was a natural Dominant and knew that a sub needs to feel loved and protected (and SAFE) even in the middle of a private flogging.

So now that’s out of the way… Let’s talk about some Adult Role Play scenarios…

The rape role play.

Whether man or woman, being raped is a fantasy that is very common. Of course when it comes to raping, it is unfortunately almost instinctive that the person who is being raped is always the woman. And it is true that submissive women who have a clear desire to be dominated sometimes fantasize about being raped. I will admit to having had this fantasy, particularly when I was younger. But I can also tell you that men have this fantasy as well, and it involves a strapon of course. But other than that, the elements of the rape are the same, whether the person who is raped is female or male. Here are some of those elements that make most people weak in the knees:

Being “forced” to do something that I (secretly) want to be done to you. In other words, you would never willingly walk into a dark alley hoping to be forcefully taken by a stranger, but you might very well fantasize about this.

Never seeing the assailant. A variance to the above, but this time you’re in complete darkness and you cannot see who is raping you.

One more thing about the rape fantasy. The majority of men are uncomfortable with this. For the very good reason that they know they would never do it in real life and would probably hang any man who ever did by the balls. If they could. In other words, because raping is against everything a real man believes in. So ladies, it is important that you explain how you trust him, that you would not give him this “primal” control if you didn’t feel completely safe with him and that you know that he would stop anytime you felt uncomfortable with the whole notion.

Him or Her…

There is a strict set of rules for those who are in the D/s lifestyle. A sub can never talk about his Mistress (he Master) by using the words “Him”, “Her”, “He”, “She” (notice the capital H which must be used when words are written, and I strongly recommend the use of emails in which you set to tone). Calling Him “Sir” for example is a good start. Calling Her “Mistress” is even better. In the midst of passion, I often call my sub words that I would never use in any other circumstance. You are my bitch. Cock sucker. Cock whore…

Role Play is perfect for that

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It’s funny really because whiles the men will snicker and make derisory comments, it’s really quite palpable that deep down they know exactly which side the are really on.  In other words, they know who the submissive is in their relationship but are unwilling to say it out loud.

Now let me be clear about this.  Not all men are submissive.  There are indeed some men who exhibit inherent dominant attributes, but in my personal experience give me any man, and eventually I’ll have him “eating out my hand!.  And the only reason for that is well… Basically, intrinsically, men can be manipulated, controlled to do just about anything a woman wants, and that control begins in bed.

Yes, that’s right.  It’s always about the sex!  Control your man in bed, use all the tools at your disposal and you, my female friend, will be the Queen of your domain, including your man!

So yes… Even if not all men are submissive by nature, you can bet your darned strapon that all men have it within themselves to be just that.  Male Submission is a wonderful thing, especially when you hitherto Dominant male agrees to become your slave!

But what is a slave in this context?

Of course, far from me to evoke imagery of times gone by (thankfully), but in Dominant / sub relationships a male slave is a person who enjoys the dynamics that this particular (D/s) lifestyle provides them with.  They love to be treated as a “sub-human” so to speak, a person who’s status is lower than that of his Dominant “owner”.

Not all male subs are slaves of course, and in fact some of my subs don’t like this label one bit. Likewise for that other word that I sometime use: The Worm! Now I have to confess that there very few instances when I will call any of my subs a “worm” unless the right circumstances call for it.

How a slave behaves and how does a Dominant expect her slave to behave varies from Woman to Woman of course.

For some who are not in the D/s lifestyle, any expected behavior on the part of the slave is always confined to sexuality.  In that context, the male is merely a sub, and not a slave (or worm).  Calling my lover a slave and a worm during sex is highly erotic though, both for “it” and for me as well.  Why else would I even bother?

But in a real D/s lifestyle, a slave might have a set of rules that he is bound to obey.  Mine include tough guidelines. For example:

1. Slave accepts that his life will be lead and controlled exclusively by me, his Dominant Woman.
2. Slave will help as much as it can with the decisions pertaining to the running of the household.
3. Slave will not sit on furniture unless specifically authorized to do so.
4. Slave will find the appropriate balance between proper and abject submission.

etc….

I personally have 17 rules that any slave of mine has to sign on before I take him on as a slave.  Indeed with me Male Submission has to be earned.  Any man can be submissive.  True male submission is a form of art, as close to perfection as possible.

The difference(s) between a slave and a worm

To the uninitiated this might sound like a crazy question, but if you are reading this article, you are either:

• A woman interested in becoming a Dominant
• A submissive man

So here are the things that I would do to a worm, and not necessarily a slave.

1. Treat “it” with disdain
2. Confine him to lay on the floor
3. Kick “it” – yes, even its private part

Or course there are hard limits… There are lines that can never be crossed. A Dominant Woman must never harm her worm.  Breaking bones is a big no no in any BDSM setup.  And there are soft limits as well,  mostly insisted upon by the worms themselves.  Like certain actions, particularly in the bathroom, and there are men who are very much into male submission who will only accept to submit to one person only (The Mistress) and not to any other Dominant men or women she might be friends or intimate with.

I a next article I will taking about why submissive men want to be a slave or even a worm.

In the meantime, i hope this article has answered at least some of your question. I you have a particular question you would like me answer, please post it in the comment section below.

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Who reads that site?

I laughed of course. How dare she! Who would read any site where the main topic is submission (sexual and other wise)?

People who are submissive of course. And the others who are Dominant.

… was my reply to her…

But she had made a point, as always, this old and so very wise woman.

Who reads my site? Men? Women? People who identify as Female? Male submissives? Couples? D/s Couples?

Dominant males who want to have a laugh about it all only to discover that deep down, they are not as dominant as they might think?

Submissive Males? Dominant Women? Kinky people? Folks who think BDSM is like Nutella on a buttered sandwich? Once you have the taste of chocolate on your tongue after that first bite, you just don’t know how you ever ate a plain buttered sandwich before?

Sexually active couples who just want to have even more fun? Couples who don’t have sex anymore? Women who are no longer desired and made love to by their man?

By the way, if that’s you, then you’ve got to read Secrets of Submission!

I think that there are principally two types of people who read my articles:

Women who know they are Dominant but don’t know how to make their partner realize they would be happier in a D/s relationship (That’s Dominant (female) and submissive (male) relationship by the way).

And Men who know that are submissive and would love to be dominated by their spouse.

I am fairly certain that submissive men frequently go on site where Female Domination is the main theme because they know their place in this world, and it is to be service of their female companion.

What about sex? Do D/s relationship have to be based on sex?

Not at all. In fact, Dominatrix who administer their BDSM crafts on their subs never ever perform sexual acts on them. They simply do not allow any kind of sexual contact that might lead to a release of any kind. That is not to say that there is no sexual component whatsoever and when a Dominant woman plays with her sub but doesn’t have sex with him, she will use the power of suggestion, the power of sexual humiliation to achieve her goals.

There are subs who think that whipping them is the best thing that can ever happen to them. In fact, I know of one man who was my sub for a couple of months who would have been a reader of this site had it existed when I first met him. He “picked” me up one night, acted all grand and macho and ended up becoming my submissive for two whole months and never had sex with me! He was whipped and bound, humiliated and bullied, he loved every minute of it, but never once was he allowed to touch me, or heaven forbid, touch himself.

Of course, that’s the extreme. Dominant women and their submissive men have the best sex they could ever have because that’s the dynamics that is supposed to exist.

So there…

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The only leather outfit I have are a pair of wicked black boots, and a pair of leather trousers that I have been known to wear to parties and what not. That’s about it, but then again, I am not a Dominatrix, people don’t pay me lots of money to be whipped, tied, humiliated, dominated…

Besides, I wouldn’t like being a Dominatrix because this would imply that there would be no sex between my subs and I! No! This would NOT be good for me. I am too sensual, too sexual for that. Still… I can be as Sadistic as my sub requires!

I am a Domme and my male partner is a sub. And no we don’t have a private dungeon, although we do have lots of toys and tools that one might find in said dungeon. We both LOVE BDSM…

And as a result, have lots of sex… (notice the “as a result” part of that statement though, because it is an important part.)

As the leader in our relationship, I embrace my dominance and truly enjoy it. The truth is, I love to be in control of myself and my surroundings, and that includes the men that I choose to share my life with.

Since I am talking about relationship, I am only ever in a monogamous relationship with one person. I don’t do swinging, am not poly amorous, don’t have extra marital affairs. I am a one woman one man type of gal and the only difference is that ours is a D/s type of a relationship. (More on this later)

As a rule, a Dominant person can ever be truly dominant if there is the right chemistry between her and her sub. And whilst I am breaking the prisms of conventional wisdom, a submissive is nobody’s doormat either. My sub is very independent, strong-willed, even stubborn and supremely confident in whom he is.

A sub is not a slave although a submissive who is well trained will do anything to please his Mistress. And he will do so willingly. I don’t coerce my sub to do anything. I encourage him, and the rest is up to him.

Submission doesn’t come from weakness, stupidity or material needs. It can only happen as the result of the opening of one’s soul, the willingness to become vulnerable and exposed. When a person submits to another, when my sub submits to me, he is entrusting himself to me entirely. There is no greater gift that he could give me than his gift of trust and the service and devotion (his!) that ensues.

A Dominant Woman, Domme, is a person who has supreme sense of self confidence, who is capable of taking control but is not a control freak, without being a jerk or a bully. There is a difference between being a true Dominant and domineering.

As a Domme, I have been known to tie my man up, bring the toys out, the whips and what not, but that is not all that a Dominant Female is. (More on sex in a D/s relationship later)

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Lots of people have misgivings about sex. Some love it and cannot do without; some don’t, or don’t even like doing it. And as I am writing this article, I am reminded of something else I heard, this time from my Dad (yes! My Dad was an awesome guy).

You need to become as skilful in bed as you possibly can. And when your man is fully sated, sit him down for the best meal in his life. When you can do those things, you will fully understand the bliss that a marriage can bring!

Of course the feminists amongst you may take this advice as yet another proof that men think that women are placed on this earth to serve them, and yet this is the furthest thing from the truth!

I have taken my Dad’s advice to heart, and I am a mean cook, and in bed… Well I’m really, really good. And let me tell you that have become the Mistress in the bedroom as well as in the kitchen, there is nothing my man won’t do to please me.

So here’s my advice to you sister…

Be REALLY sexual with your partner, have sex that takes his breath away, take the lead, control, cajole, enchant. Make him YOURS. Hungry. For more. For YOU. Always. Push the envelope one kiss at the time. Make him miss you the moment he leaves the house. Miss YOU. Think about how he would love to make love and have sex with you for hours.

But… Always stay in control. Feed his needs, a little at the time. Always leaving something for later. Use your imagination. Role Play. Orgasm Control. You have no idea what a man will do, how he will behave if you bring him to the boil and then stop. Right before. Become assertive. Act as if its’ a game, but consolidate your Dominance gradually. In the beginning he’ll think it’s all a game. Once he is out of the bedroom, he will resume his alpha status. But as you refine your skills, making him desire you more, want you more, he will become more dependent, hopeful, and submissive.

SUBMISSIVE! To you. A D/s relationship in which YOU are the Dominant and your husband the sub is worth the effort and can bring unimaginable rewards.

Does it always have to be about the dynamics of a D/s relationship then?

Not at all. As a Dominant Woman, I love to switch! That means that there are times when I will willingly submit to him. He will be the D and I the s. There is no guideline as to when this happens, but we both love it when we switch roles.
Harmony in a couple is having the right balance between Dominant and sub, and anyone who wishes to be a Dominant must first learn to be s submissive.

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Down boys. Them balls aint yours! In fact you don’t even have to be there for the inevitable orgasm that ensues, once your lady inserts them in…

Alright… Let me start this again.

Ben-Wa balls are gorgeous toys made for the pleasure of women only. They go inside the Vagina and that’s the only place they’re meant to go in, guys!

These Orgasm Balls (that’s how I call them) are small solid-sized balls, either empty (hollow) or containing a small ball within each Venus Ball (yes, that’s another name for this delicious miracle) that (Oh heavens!) rolls around with every movement you make.

And where is the connection between these Balls and the inevitable orgasm that they will no doubt cause whenever you make a move?

Well… Imagine for a moment lady… You go out for an evening with your beau, your belle, or just by yourself! But before you do out, you make sure to insert these Ben Wa Balls inside your vagina! I usually do that before putting on my lipstick! A girl has to have manners, don’t you think?

Now every time you move, the little balls inside the bigger ones start rolling around… Ya’r getting the picture girl?

Here is how it translates in mathematical terms! (Yes, I’m odd like that, what can I do?)

Movement = Sexual stimulation = Orgasm

Not in a mood to go out do I hear? Well you know that rocking chair you’ve always dreamed of buying?

I had a girlfriend who called this delicious little Chinese invention an instrument of torture! Well, too many orgasms can do that to a girl ya know!

Ok… What about you guys? Well here’s the deal. Unless your lady uses them in that rocking chair I just told you about, she will have to use muscles to keep them in. Which muscles, you ask, poor simple soul?

Pelvic floor muscles… Imagine that! The more she uses them, the better she can control them muscles, and well, I just leave it to you to visualize what this will do when it will be your turn to … hmmm… pay her a visit!

No sex for you I hear you say? Never mind girl. Ben Wa balls have a perfectly medicinal value in that they increase vaginal elasticity, strengthen said vagina and as a result help bladder control, urinary incontinence.

By the way, if you don’t have the cash to buy an Orgasm Ball, then sneezing, coughing and laughing out loud stimulate the same muscles so there…

Oh… Another by the way! If you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey, then you already know what these little marvels are for. So go on girl… Get in on the fun!

And guys? If you ever wonder what to buy for your girl? Now you know! You’ll be helping HER! And you indirectly. Sure beats them flowers that die off after 3 days.

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