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My Husband? Submissive? He Would Never Allow It!

Teach my man to be submissiveEven today, women are being taught that as women, they are naturally submissive and should submit to their husbands when the time comes for them to become wives.  Indeed, the common wisdom, when it comes to Dominance, is that this is a trait specific to men and that’s how it’s supposed to be.

Yes, even today…

And if, as a female reader, this assertion has made you feel uncomfortable, then congratulation, sister.  There is a new order in the world, where things are back to where they should be, just like they were in the days of matriarchal societies. Days gone by when the women were the leaders of men, and men didn’t think that being lead by women made them any less men then they were!

Still, there is this doubt, tucked away in the recess of many a woman’s mind. A doubt about her natural Dominance over her man, and a misguided assumption that a real man would never allow himself to be submissive!

How do I turn my husband into a submissive man?  He is a “male” kind of man, does “guy stuff”, he knows what he wants, there’s no way he would ever accept to “submit” to me, in bed or anywhere else for that matter!

I hear this a hundred times from women I talk to who are interested in asserting some sort of dominance over their men, but think their men would never want such a thing to happen.

Besides, they also say…

I don’t want to turn my man into some kind of brainless metro sexual thing.  I like him strong and powerful…  If don’t think my husband can ever become a submissive to anyone, let alone me… And I really don’t want him to be subservient to me either…

So let me begin this article by saying that I love strong, powerful men.  Guys with an attitude, a self awareness that they know have got “it”.  Good looking guys, who will be at my side, will support me, will help me in times of need and hold me when I need it.

In a relationship when the woman is the Dominant, and the male her sub, it is often assumed that the man becomes some kind of subservient slave, some spineless dude who will do just about everything to please his wife, even if that means throwing away is “maleness”.  His virility!

And nothing could be further from the truth.  The men I control (now, or in the past) have never lost the sense of who they are, never lose their virility, never become slave, because that would imply a lack of free will on their part.

My men want, (really want), to be submissive to me, and anything I ask them to do, they do so willingly, eagerly and without any form of coercion.  Of course I have trained them to be just how I like them to be, but here is the wonderful thing about it:

You can be trained too!

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You just need the knowledge, it’s not difficult, your husband will love it, and the more you train him, the more he will want to please you!

And that, a man in love, is the sweetest thing of all!

 

 

Does A Woman Need To Be Dominant To Learn About The Secrets Of Submission?

Dominant WomanDominant Women (alpha women) are becoming more and more popular these days. From the rise of the Iron Lady to the advent of political and dominating ladies who willfully chew anyone for breakfast (from both parties), Dominant women are certainly on the rise. And not just in the political realm. Sexual Female Dominance is also becoming increasingly fashionable and the sexually Dominant Woman seems to have become a very sought after person in dating circles.

There is an inherently exhilarating element in the discovery (and practice!) of safe and fun erotic female dominance over man and it is precisely what Miss Young sets out to unleash in her most exquisite course!

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But does a woman need to be naturally Dominant (born as a Dominant), in order to learn about the Secrets of Submission, or can these extraordinarily powerful techniques be taught to any woman, even those amongst us who are naturally submissive?

In other words, can any woman be taught to be an alpha woman?

It is an interesting question and my own view is that as a general rule, females are born to be the dominant force.  Historical circumstances (we know what they are) have meant that women have had to show submission in order to survive in male dominated societies, but that does not mean that they were inherently submissive.  As a survival mechanism, their dominating side was disguised but if there is anything a woman is particularly adept at doing, it is to adjust to circumstances and some women, even the more “submissive” ones have long ago learned that even the most powerful men can be sexually “ruled”.

And here comes the really wonderful part, once a woman becomes knowledgeable about how to sexually dominate her man, her control over him inevitably extends way past the confines of their bedroom.

All she needs is to be told what to do, and her nature will always do the rest.

So, in this article, I have not tried to define how to find a Dominant (alpha) woman, besides most of readers are females, but rather how any woman can re-discover her own natural Dominance.

One of the questions women ask me is why would any woman want to be sexually dominant, what’s in it for them, and why would any man even accept to become the submissive partner in this erotic dominance play.

I will address these issues in later articles, but suffice to say that I don’t know of any man who having been a relationship with a Dominant woman who knows all about the Secrets of Submission would want anything else.

Let me say this another way.  Once YOU become the expert in the three techniques taught in the Miss Ivy Young’s exhilarating book, your man will not want to go back.  Not only that, he will have been so entirely smitten by your sexual dominance that his devotion to you will know no boundaries!

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And as you read through the articles on this site and get yourself ready to take the next step and order the course for yourself, you may question your husband’s willingness to even keep an open mind and try these techniques.

That would of course be a valid point, but here is the truly wonderful part.  He will be transformed in a loving, sexual thang, intent on pleasing you, and won’t even realize it.

You see, all men, even the most powerful leaders, love to be sexually submissive.  They just don’t know that they do.

So give it a go, there is a sixty day refund guarantee if you are not satisfied, but my challenge to you is that once you start to enjoy the enormous and exquisite advantages that come with the Secrets of Submission, you will wonder how on earth you were able to cope without.

The truth is of course that you weren’t, you wouldn’t be here right now, if you were. Nor would you be contemplating taking this course if your relationship was all that it could be!

In a next article I will talk about what erotic sexual dominance is and give my two cents to the concept of male submission and the wonderful qualities of submissive boyfriends (husbands).

In the meantime…  To the Dominant Queen in you, my dear female reader…

 

 

When Should a Woman Learn The Secrets of Submission?

Discover The Secrets of Submission2As a woman, you wouldn’t be on this site if you were completely happy with your relationship (marriage).  I know that there isn’t probably one couple out there who can claim that they are living the perfect bliss, (would it be even that interesting if it was possible?) but the sad truth is that for a large majority of couples who have been together for more than a few years bliss is the furthest thing there is from their (your?) reality.

Indeed, for countless men and women, intimacy has become a forgotten word and as for sex, well…

So if you are perfectly happy with your sexual life with your husband, and you think that adding extra spice wouldn’t change anything, then, girlfriend, you are indeed a happy woman!  And… Congratulations!  Tell us how you have done it!

Or is it that you already know the delicious thrills the Secrets of Submission can bring to a couple?

Still reading?  Well then… You have work to do!

In the own words of Miss Ivy Young, Licensed Sex Therapist and Los Angeles Top Dominatrix…

Let’s be honest here…

Your sex life is DEAD

Your partner doesn’t look at you the way that he used to…

You are bored in the bedroom…

And sometimes…

In the middle of sex…

You find yourself wondering about other things…

Hoping that your partner would just hurry up and finish…

So you can roll back and go to sleep…

Your sex life is boring and uninspired…

And you don’t feel connected to your partner any more…

In any way…

Sometimes you feel angry and even resentful…

Because you are not getting the attention

The passion

The love

The respect that you need…

And you deserve

In your own relationship…

Sometimes, you even feel alone

In your relationship with your partner…

And that is the loneliest feeling of all…

When you are alone…

And you are with someone who you are not getting…

That love from…

Not getting that attention from…

Not getting that super hot sex from…

That you’ve had before

 That you know is possible..

You want so desperately to have again!

If what you have just read describes how YOU feel about your relationship with your own man, then right now is the time you should learn the Secrets of Submission!  You shouldn’t even hesitate.

One of two things will happen when you purchase the trend setting book from Miss Young:

  • You will discover it’s not for you and you will have up 60 days to get a full refund from Clickbank!
  • You and your husband will absolutely love it

Two easy outcomes, no risks, and the rewards might even save your marriage!

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Is this book only for women who are naturally Dominant?

50 Shades of Grey

50- Shades of GreyIf you have read 50 Shades of Grey, then you already know what these books are all about and thus, you are also more intimately familiar with the concept of BDSM (that’s Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and or Masochism, in that order and any order that takes your fancy!).

If you haven’t read it, where have you been girl?

The purpose of this article is not to write about the merits of these books, enough ink has been spilled on that subject as it is, but rather to talk about the Secrets of Submission, one of the underlying elements of said books.

As a woman who’s read all three books, I must admit to feeling vindicated that when you add fantasy and role play to your love making then the sky is the limit as the say goes and a vanilla relationship can then transform itself into something all together more enticing, exotic, erotic, exciting, even dangerous…

Submission of one person to another!

50 Shades of Grey has been a defining moment in the lives of millions of women around the world as they are becoming intimately familiar with the concept of BDSM (that’s Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and or Masochism, in that order and any order that takes your fancy, of course!).

How many women have read 50 Shades of Grey?  According to some estimations, it’s over 40 millions of our sisters, young and old, married and single, spread around all continents who have already read  E. L. James books, (three books), (some more than once).  Add to that, an increasing number of men who have finally realized that they should really make an effort and read what their wives and girlfriends have been fantasizing about. Countless men, curious about that “big” secret that is being whispered behind their backs.

If you haven’t read it, where have you been girl?

The purpose of this article though is not to write about the merits of these books, whatever they might be, (enough ink has been spilled on that subject as it is), but rather to talk about submission and introduce a twist into the conversation that has everything to do with Secrets of Submission, and how any couple can learn about these secrets and nearly instantly turn their bedroom into a cauldron of passion.

One of the underlying current that has women all over the world buzzing is the fact that the future Mrs. Grey is introduced into the world of BDSM by Mr. Grey and as a result, falls head over heels in love with him.

The suggestion is that without the element of surrender, without becoming a “sub” to her Dominant boyfriend, without all that, perhaps Anastasia might not have fallen in love with Mr. 50 Shades of Grey.. or at the very least, not so passionately!

As a woman who’s read all three books, I must admit to feeling vindicated about something I have always said to my friends.

When you add fantasy and roleplay to your love making then it is possible to take any “vanilla” relationship and transform it into something all together more enticing, exotic, erotic, exciting, even dangerous…

As a Dominant woman, a Dominatrix with a large number of males who pay me large sums of money to Dominate them, I can tell you that there is no sweeter reward than to receive the attention of an adoring man during and after a BDSM session.

What am I talking about?  Simple:  Submission of one person to another!

In 50 shades of Grey, it is the woman that submits to her man, but in my own world of 50 shades of submission, it is the men are the subs, and they absolutely love it!