I was talking to my old mom the other day telling her about this site (yes, she is that open minded) and she asked me the weirdest question:

Who reads that site?

I laughed of course. How dare she! Who would read any site where the main topic is submission (sexual and other wise)?

People who are submissive of course. And the others who are Dominant.

… was my reply to her…

But she had made a point, as always, this old and so very wise woman.

Who reads my site? Men? Women? People who identify as Female? Male submissives? Couples? D/s Couples?

Dominant males who want to have a laugh about it all only to discover that deep down, they are not as dominant as they might think?

Submissive Males? Dominant Women? Kinky people? Folks who think BDSM is like Nutella on a buttered sandwich? Once you have the taste of chocolate on your tongue after that first bite, you just don’t know how you ever ate a plain buttered sandwich before?

Sexually active couples who just want to have even more fun? Couples who don’t have sex anymore? Women who are no longer desired and made love to by their man?

By the way, if that’s you, then you’ve got to read Secrets of Submission!

I think that there are principally two types of people who read my articles:

Women who know they are Dominant but don’t know how to make their partner realize they would be happier in a D/s relationship (That’s Dominant (female) and submissive (male) relationship by the way).

And Men who know that are submissive and would love to be dominated by their spouse.

I am fairly certain that submissive men frequently go on site where Female Domination is the main theme because they know their place in this world, and it is to be service of their female companion.

What about sex? Do D/s relationship have to be based on sex?

Not at all. In fact, Dominatrix who administer their BDSM crafts on their subs never ever perform sexual acts on them. They simply do not allow any kind of sexual contact that might lead to a release of any kind. That is not to say that there is no sexual component whatsoever and when a Dominant woman plays with her sub but doesn’t have sex with him, she will use the power of suggestion, the power of sexual humiliation to achieve her goals.

There are subs who think that whipping them is the best thing that can ever happen to them. In fact, I know of one man who was my sub for a couple of months who would have been a reader of this site had it existed when I first met him. He “picked” me up one night, acted all grand and macho and ended up becoming my submissive for two whole months and never had sex with me! He was whipped and bound, humiliated and bullied, he loved every minute of it, but never once was he allowed to touch me, or heaven forbid, touch himself.

Of course, that’s the extreme. Dominant women and their submissive men have the best sex they could ever have because that’s the dynamics that is supposed to exist.

So there…